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Nurturing Boys in Modern Society

The current debate as to who has it tougher, girls or boys misses the point.

It’s essential to recognise that both boys and girls face unique challenges. Pitting the genders against each other fuels the problem. Rather than viewing it as a competition between genders, we should focus on understanding and addressing their distinct experiences.

From a young age, boys naturally gravitate towards activities that help them explore and understand their masculinity. Rough and tumble play, for instance, plays a crucial role in their physical, emotional, and social development.



Through these interactions, boys learn about their physical boundaries, develop empathy, and build social skills. Encouraging such play from early years is essential in helping boys form strong foundations for healthy relationships and personal growth.

To support boys in their exploration of masculinity, we must provide ample opportunities for diverse play experiences. This involves providing access to a variety of toys, games, and outdoor activities that cater to their interests and preferences.



By offering a wide range of play options, we enable boys to discover and develop their unique strengths and talents and boost their self esteem. Children with high self esteem are less likely to be vulnerable to toxic messages such as those from the misogynists and incel communities that seem to be on the rise online

In today’s digital age, it’s impossible to ignore the prevalence of screens in children’s lives. While technology can offer educational benefits, it’s important to set limits on screen time and encourage alternative forms of play. Balancing screen activities with physical play, creative pursuits, and outdoor exploration is essential for a well-rounded development.



In recent years, there has been a noticeable increase in solitary activities among boys, such as computer gaming and, even for those who care about their bodies, as evidenced by the rise in gym attendance by teenage boys, these tend to be solitary workout sessions rather than sociable activities that give them a chance to develop important social and emotional skills.

While these activities can have their benefits, it’s crucial not to let them be at the expense of real-world social interactions. Striking a balance between solitary pursuits and group activities is key to a well-rounded development.



Social skills are fundamental for healthy relationships and personal well-being. Encouraging boys to engage in group activities, team sports, and community events fosters the development of crucial social skills. These interactions provide opportunities for cooperation, communication, and conflict resolution, all of which are vital for navigating the complexities of modern society.

Boys, like girls, need a safe space to express their emotions. Play provides an ideal platform for them to explore and communicate their feelings. Whether through imaginative play, art, or storytelling, allowing boys to express themselves helps them develop emotional intelligence and resilience.


By validating their emotions, we empower them to navigate challenges with confidence and empathy. Providing boys with open-ended toys, arts and crafts materials, and imaginative play scenarios encourages them to think outside the box and explore their creative potential. This not only enhances their problem-solving skills but also fosters a love for learning and innovation.

It’s crucial to ensure that play experiences are inclusive and diverse, reflecting a wide range of interests, talents, and backgrounds. By exposing boys to a variety of play options, we promote empathy, understanding, and respect for different perspectives. This inclusive approach helps them develop a well-rounded worldview and fosters a sense of belonging in a diverse society.